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Post changed to be less offensive, but still explained

From: -Anonymous-
Date posted: 11/2/2009
Years at this apartment: 2009-01-01 - 2009-01-01
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I hope this post works for most people who may by similarly affected. I have moved from this place and my reasons are below. I'm an attractive person and was constantly screened and annoyed by people I didn't appreciate disturbing me. For example, just because I cordially said 'hi' back to someone of the opposite sex to be cool, the man was at my door at 6am in the next morning expecting attention like I was his instant girlfriend. This is intolerable. There are both men and women here who don't know their space and are too open, expecting others to be. Let me elaborate, there are people who don't want to engage. Let me explain why some people won't say 'hi' to you or want you acquaintance when you are complete strangers. It's not always about a personal offense:
It's this word 'hi', either said or not said, that seems to set people off around here. Now, if someone who is a complete stranger to you does not say 'hi' or want to meet your acquaintance, there are several reasons besided something personal toward you for this such as. 1. the person is challenged 2. the person is depressed in their life and completely does not want company 3. the person is married 4. the person is deaf 5. the person is psychotic and does not even comprehendn your 'hi' 6. the person doesn't find you appealing 7. the person is just thinking of their bill and didn't hear your 'hi'. 8. the person does not awnt to get married and have sex, and if they did, it's not you they want - a perfect stranger scouting around for anyone to pay affections to them. So, maybe someone like your should live in a more hospitable place where everyone is in everyone's face and enjoys constant people companionship. So, when someone does not pay attention to you who don't even know you, leave them alone. Don't get mad and spread rumors and bug them.

Now, if you are a person walking around, following people and trying to meet up with them and they don't at all seem interested, it's not your place to spread rumors about them, get people to hate them and annoy them, and disturb them. If you're this type of person, you want way too much attention, in the wrong place, and very selfishly. That person who didn't say 'hi' back to you and their reason, usually having nothing to do with you. Maybe they just had a death in the family and five minutes after being told of it, you're right up in their space going 'good morning' 'hi'. they don't say hi back and you go "Why didn't say hi?" Us tenantsa who are consumed with our own personal crisis cannot handle this anymore. Please stop thinking of only your own self and needs and HOUNDING other tenants to pay attention to them, those tenants who have no clue about personal space and boundaries.

There are people sick, depressed, upset, deaf, loners, going through too much personal crisis to respond to every Jane and Jack who needs their response. Please pay more respect to those who are not as happy to see you as you are to them. Leave people alone, all you tenants who are everywhere trying to get attentions.

Now, if someone walks by you and doesn't say 'hi' back, don't take offense, please. We all need a certain amount of space and not everyone can tolerate someone communicatinong to them constantly from 6am to midnight. at 6am, people are usually in their morning solace and don't want your company.

How to deal with a neighbor who wants to get too close to you and if bothering you:
Good article:
http://moving.apartmentguide.com/roommatesneighbors/what-to-do-when-a-neighbor-gets-too-close/

In most cases, the article doesn't offer good advice. It's best to meet your neighbor once, and keep it at that, especially if your neighbor is the opposite sex, unless you want to get closer. If absolutely want no relationship with the neighbor, don't do these:
http://moving.apartmentguide.com/roommatesneighbors/meeting-the-neighbors/

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